When people ask why we started Elayne, I never give them a polished story. The truth is that I went through one of the hardest experiences of my life, and the systems that were supposed to help just didn’t work.
After my mom passed away, I became responsible for closing accounts, handing paperwork and meeting strict deadlines. Even with legal support and a background in finance, I felt completely lost. There was no clear sequence to follow, no straightforward explanations, and no process that felt like it was designed for people who are grieving.
To put it lightly, when it comes to estate planning and settlement, there’s a lot of room for improvement. I also knew that my situation wasn’t unique. Countless families face the same confusion and pressure, often without any form of guidance. Many end up feeling overwhelmed, uncertain, and alone at a time when they should be focused on healing.
At Elayne, we’re not here to make small improvements to a broken system. We’re rethinking estate planning and settlement from the ground up, shaping every detail around the needs of the people we serve. From the way our tools are designed to how our team works alongside families, our goal is always the same: to provide people with the clarity, compassion and direction they deserve.
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Building with Care
Loss changes you. Caring for my mother through her illness, and then managing everything that followed, taught me how important timing, certainty, and empathy are when you’re struggling. At Elayne, many of us know this firsthand.
Members of our team have faced the loss of parents, grandparents, or are caring for loved ones with a serious illness. These experiences have given us a deep understanding of what it means to feel overwhelmed, and what actually helps when life seems unmanageable.
It’s why every decision we make, from the language in a notification to the sequence of steps in a checklist, is measured against one question: will this make things easier for the families we serve?
Through each stage of estate planning and settlement, we focus on removing friction, replacing uncertainty with clarity, and providing stability in moments that feel unpredictable. Our goal isn’t to hand over a set of static tools. It’s to design support that adapts to each situation and moves with people, step by step, through the hardest parts of their journey.
A Technology Company at Heart
Unfortunately, it often feels like estate planning and after-death logistics haven’t received the level of attention and innovation they deserve. Many processes still run as they did decades ago, which makes them unnecessarily slow, complex, and stressful. For us, we don’t accept “this is how it’s always been done” as a reason to keep doing something. Instead, we focus on how these processes should work, and then build toward that standard.
Very intentionally, that mindset is woven into our culture.
Twice a month, we hold an AI and Technology Showcase where team members demo tools and experiments that could make Elayne faster, smarter, or more intuitive. Each week, our lunch-and-learns create space for sharing ideas from every corner of the company, sparking improvements that wouldn’t happen in isolation. These types of practices keep us open to better ways of working, and help us move quickly when something falls short of what families deserve.
We feel strongly that innovation is another form of care. Every time we make a process simpler, faster, or clearer, we make it more compassionate for the people who depend on it.
Principles in Action
Our values are not slogans on a wall. They’re built into the routines and reviews that directly shape what families experience with Elayne.
1. Care Audits
Before releasing any update, we hold a care review to evaluate how each step will feel to the person using it. We check timing, order, and presentation. This process reveals where steps can be simplified, reordered, or removed so the experience feels intuitive from start to finish.
2. Grief-Centered UX Sessions
We test designs against real-life experiences and direct feedback from families. If something feels overwhelming or unclear, we refine it. Sometimes that means breaking a process into smaller parts. Other times, it’s adding context so families understand why a step matters before taking it. These sessions ensure nothing feels rushed or confusing, and that our designs reflect both clarity and compassion in equal measure.
3. Language and Tone Checks
Every word matters. We review each email, notification, and in-app message to make sure it feels human, clear and supportive. That means no jargon, no cold or detached phrasing, and no unnecessary complexity. We also maintain a living language guide so these choices stay consistent across every touchpoint, whether someone is reading a welcome note or reviewing their estate plan.
4. Gratitude in Practice
Every Friday, we revisit our values as a team and share moments that reflect Elayne’s ideals in motion. We also have a “Gratitude” channel in Slack, which stays active with acknowledgments for teammates and their contributions. These practices keep our mission present in daily work and remind us that care for families starts with care for each other.
5. The Extra Mile, Systematized
When something we do for one family makes a major difference, we find ways to make it the standard for everyone. Whether it’s a thoughtful support interaction, a better-timed request, or a new resource, it’s not left as a one-off. It becomes part of our process, ensuring every family benefits from what we’ve learned. Over time, this approach turns small acts of care into lasting improvements across the entire platform.
How Families Experience Elayne
When our values and practices work in unison, families see a system that’s both supportive and effective.
They move through a clear, well-structured process that breaks complex tasks into manageable steps. Reminders arrive at the right time, helping them keep plans accurate as circumstances change. When they invite loved ones to take part, collaboration is simple. Everyone has shared access and can stay on the same page, reducing the chance of misunderstandings or delays.
Families not only complete what’s needed, but they do so with confidence, understanding, and a sense of control. Our aim is to make difficult moments less overwhelming by providing the right guidance, at the right time, in the right way.
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Looking Ahead
I started Elayne because I know what it feels like to be lost in a system that doesn’t see you. I wanted to create something that would guide families through difficult times with clarity, respect, and compassion.
For us, “care” is not a statement printed in a handbook. It’s in the timing of a request that arrives exactly when it’s needed. It’s in a checklist that turns a daunting task into a clear path. It’s in the tone of a message that helps someone feel understood, not processed.
It’s also built into how we work together: our Friday reflections, our language guide, and our commitment to change what’s not working, even if it’s a long-standing practice. Care is in the details, and the details are never too small to matter.
Families don’t choose us for statements or slogans. They’re here for the reassurance that every interaction will leave them deeply supported, better informed, and more confident in the road ahead. Going forward, we intend to keep earning that trust, one thoughtful step at a time.
Elayne makes estate settlement simple
Elayne makes estate settlement simple
