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Can My Brother Cut Me Off of My Dad's Estate in Texas?

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Jocelyn Campos
Published Date
February 13, 2026
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Key Takeaways

  • An executor in Texas must follow the terms of the will or state intestacy laws, they cannot arbitrarily decide who gets inheritance
  • If your father had a valid will that includes you, your brother cannot legally exclude you from your inheritance regardless of his role as executor
  • Even without a will, Texas intestacy laws determine who inherits, and children typically have strong inheritance rights that an executor cannot override
  • Texas law requires executors to act as fiducials with duties of loyalty and fairness to all beneficiaries, and courts can remove executors who violate these duties
  • You have legal rights to information about the estate, to object to improper actions, and to contest a will if you believe it's invalid or was created under undue influence

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Understanding Executor Authority in Texas

What an Executor Can and Cannot Do

An executor in Texas, officially called an "independent executor" or "personal representative," has significant responsibilities but limited power when it comes to deciding who inherits. The executor's job is to carry out the terms of the will as written and to follow Texas probate law. They cannot simply decide to give your share to someone else or cut you out because of personal feelings or family disagreements.

The executor's duties include gathering estate assets, paying legitimate debts and taxes, managing property during the estate administration, and distributing remaining assets to beneficiaries according to the will or intestacy laws. These are administrative tasks that must be performed according to legal requirements, not discretionary decisions based on the executor's preferences.

However, executors do have some discretion in timing, valuation methods, and management decisions. Your brother might choose which assets to sell and when to sell them, how to invest estate funds temporarily, or the order in which certain tasks are completed. These decisions should be made in the best interests of the estate and all beneficiaries, not to favor some heirs over others.

Fiduciary Duties Executors Must Follow

Texas law imposes strict fiduciary duties on executors. A fiduciary duty is the highest standard of care under law, requiring the executor to act with complete loyalty to the beneficiaries and to put their interests ahead of personal interests. This means your brother must treat you fairly regardless of any personal conflicts or family tensions.

Specific fiduciary duties include the duty of loyalty (acting in beneficiaries' best interests, not personal interests), the duty of impartiality (treating all beneficiaries fairly according to their entitlements), the duty of prudence (managing estate assets carefully and responsibly), and the duty of disclosure (providing information about the estate to beneficiaries who have the right to know).

Violating fiduciary duties can result in serious consequences for an executor. The probate court can remove an executor who breaches these duties, can order the executor to personally pay for losses caused by their misconduct, and in extreme cases involving intentional wrongdoing, can impose additional penalties. These protections exist specifically to prevent executors from abusing their position.

When Independent Administration Applies

Texas is unique in offering independent administration, which allows executors to manage estates with minimal court supervision if the will specifically authorizes this or all beneficiaries agree. Independent executors don't need court approval for most actions, which speeds up estate administration and reduces costs. However, independent administration doesn't mean the executor can ignore beneficiaries' rights or distribute assets however they choose.

Even under independent administration, executors must still follow the will's terms and must provide accountings if beneficiaries request them. If an independent executor acts improperly, beneficiaries can ask the court to intervene, convert the administration to dependent (court-supervised) status, or remove the executor entirely.

The independence refers to day-to-day management decisions, not to the fundamental question of who inherits. Your brother's status as independent executor doesn't give him power to disinherit you or change the distribution scheme established by your father's will or by Texas law.

Your Rights Under a Valid Will

When You're Named in the Will

If your father's will specifically names you as a beneficiary and states what you should receive, you have a clear legal right to that inheritance. Your brother cannot change the will's terms or decide to give your share to someone else. The will is a legally binding document that dictates how the estate must be distributed.

As a named beneficiary, you have the right to receive notice about the probate proceeding, to receive a copy of the will if you request it, to be informed about the estate's progress, and ultimately to receive the specific bequests or share of the estate that the will designates for you. These rights exist regardless of your relationship with the executor.

If your brother refuses to distribute your inheritance as specified in the will, he's violating his duties as executor and potentially breaking the law. You would have grounds to petition the court for enforcement, to request his removal as executor, and potentially to seek damages if his refusal caused you financial harm.

Contesting Specific Bequests

Sometimes wills include specific items or amounts for particular beneficiaries, then distribute the remainder (called the residuary estate) among all children or other beneficiaries. Understanding exactly what you're entitled to requires carefully reading the will's language. If there's ambiguity or if you believe the executor is misinterpreting the will, you can ask the court to interpret the contested provisions.

Your brother as executor doesn't have final say on what ambiguous will provisions mean. If there's genuine disagreement about interpretation, the probate court makes the final determination. Courts try to honor the testator's (your father's) intent as expressed in the will, looking at the document as a whole and considering surrounding circumstances if necessary.

Sometimes executors try to pressure beneficiaries into accepting less than they're entitled to by suggesting that contesting distributions will delay everything or cost the estate money. While litigation does have costs, you have every right to ensure you receive your proper inheritance. Courts expect executors to follow the law, and you shouldn't feel guilty about insisting on your legal rights.

Challenging Will Validity

If you believe your father's will isn't valid, perhaps because he lacked mental capacity when he signed it, or because someone exerted undue influence over him, you can contest the will in Texas probate court. Common grounds for will contests include lack of testamentary capacity, undue influence, fraud, forgery, or failure to follow proper execution formalities.

Will contests must be filed within specific time limits under Texas law, typically within two years after the will is admitted to probate. Once you receive notice that the will has been filed and admitted to probate, the clock starts ticking on your ability to challenge it. Don't delay if you have concerns about the will's validity.

Successfully contesting a will is difficult and requires substantial evidence. Courts presume that properly executed wills are valid, so you bear the burden of proving otherwise. However, if you have legitimate concerns, especially if there's evidence your father was pressured or manipulated, pursuing a contest might be worthwhile. Consult with a probate litigation attorney who can evaluate your specific situation.

Your Rights When There's No Will

Texas Intestacy Laws

If your father died without a valid will, his estate is distributed according to Texas intestacy laws. These are default rules that the legislature created to distribute estates in ways most people would want. The rules consider marital status and which family members survive the deceased person.

For a father who was not married at the time of death, Texas intestacy law provides that all children inherit equally. If you and your brother are both your father's children, you would each inherit fifty percent regardless of who is appointed administrator of the estate. If there are more siblings, the estate is divided equally among all children.

If your father was married when he died, intestacy becomes more complex. If all children are also children of the surviving spouse, the spouse inherits all community property and the children inherit the separate property. If there are children from other relationships (not children of the surviving spouse), the estate is divided differently with both spouse and children receiving shares. Understanding the exact intestacy rules that apply requires knowing the specific family structure.

Equal Treatment of Children

Texas law treats all children equally for intestacy purposes, biological children, adopted children, and in some circumstances children born after death all have inheritance rights. Your status as a child gives you rights that cannot be taken away by an executor or administrator simply because they prefer other family members.

Your brother, even as administrator of an intestate estate, must distribute assets according to intestacy law's mandated shares. He has no discretion to give you less than your statutory share or to favor himself or other siblings. The law is clear on this point, and courts strictly enforce equal treatment among children when intestacy applies.

Sometimes administrators try to argue that one child should receive less because they received financial help during the parent's lifetime or because of strained relationships. Unless your father's will specifically addressed these issues (and if there's no will, it didn't), these arguments hold no legal weight. Texas intestacy law doesn't reduce a child's share based on loans from parents, gifts received during life, or the quality of the parent-child relationship.

Proving Your Status as an Heir

To inherit under intestacy laws, you must prove you're your father's child. For most people this is straightforward, a birth certificate showing your father as parent establishes the relationship. If your parents were married when you were born, paternity is presumed, making proof simple.

If you were born outside marriage, Texas law still recognizes you as an heir if paternity was established through various methods: your father's name appears on your birth certificate, your father formally acknowledged paternity, genetic testing established paternity, or a court determined paternity. Children adopted by your father are treated exactly the same as biological children for inheritance purposes.

If your brother as administrator questions your status as an heir, you may need to provide documentation proving the parent-child relationship. This is a legal requirement, not your brother acting improperly. However, if you can prove the relationship and your brother still refuses to include you in distributions, he's violating his duties and you can seek court intervention.

Common Ways Executors Mishandle Estates

Favoritism Among Beneficiaries

One of the most common problems occurs when an executor-sibling favors themselves or certain family members over others. This might take the form of giving themselves valuable personal items while giving other siblings less valuable things, selling estate assets to themselves or family members at below-market prices, or delaying distributions to beneficiaries they're in conflict with while making timely distributions to favored family members.

Texas law prohibits this type of favoritism. Executors must treat all beneficiaries impartially according to their entitlements under the will or intestacy law. If the will says assets should be divided equally among three children, the executor cannot give the best assets to one child while giving less valuable assets to the others unless all beneficiaries agree to this arrangement.

Document any instances where you believe your brother is showing favoritism. Keep records of communications, note dates when other siblings received distributions while you didn't, and preserve evidence of undervalued sales or suspicious transactions. This documentation becomes crucial if you need to petition the court for relief or to have your brother removed as executor.

Lack of Communication and Transparency

Executors who refuse to provide information about the estate or who are secretive about what they're doing often signal problems. While executors don't need to share every minor detail, beneficiaries have legal rights to know about estate assets, debts, and the administration's progress. Unreasonable secrecy suggests the executor may be hiding improper conduct.

You have the right to request an accounting showing all estate assets, income, expenses, and distributions. In independent administrations, executors aren't required to file accountings with the court automatically, but they must provide them to beneficiaries who request them. If your brother refuses to provide an accounting or gives you incomplete information, this is a red flag.

Texas law specifically protects beneficiaries' rights to information. If an executor won't voluntarily provide required information, you can petition the court to compel an accounting. Courts take these requests seriously because transparency is fundamental to proper estate administration. Executors who resist reasonable information requests often have something to hide.

Unreasonable Delays

Some executors delay distributing inheritances as a way of maintaining control or punishing beneficiaries they're in conflict with. While estate administration does take time, typically six months to a year or more depending on complexity, unreasonable delays without legitimate explanation can constitute a breach of fiduciary duty.

If months or years pass with no progress and no explanation, or if your brother makes distributions to some siblings but keeps delaying yours without good reason, you may have grounds to petition the court for action. Courts can order executors to proceed with distributions, can set deadlines for completing administration, and in extreme cases can remove executors who are dragging out the process unnecessarily.

Sometimes delays are legitimate, complex estates with business interests, real estate requiring sales, or tax complications take longer to settle. The difference between legitimate delays and improper conduct often comes down to communication and reasonableness. An executor who keeps beneficiaries informed about legitimate complications is acting properly, while one who simply ignores beneficiaries and takes no action is likely breaching duties.

Self-Dealing and Conflicts of Interest

Self-dealing occurs when an executor benefits personally from transactions with the estate. Examples include buying estate property for themselves at less than fair market value, hiring their own business to provide services to the estate at inflated prices, or using estate assets for personal benefit before distribution.

Texas law strictly prohibits self-dealing by executors. Even transactions that might seem reasonable, like an executor buying estate property at fair market value, require transparency and often the agreement of all beneficiaries. Hidden self-dealing is grounds for removing an executor and can require the executor to personally compensate the estate for losses.

If your brother lives in your father's house rent-free, uses estate vehicles, or conducts business using estate assets, these could constitute improper self-dealing depending on the circumstances. Executors can be compensated for their services through executor fees (a percentage of the estate value set by Texas law), but they cannot simply help themselves to estate assets.

Steps to Protect Your Inheritance Rights

Requesting an Accounting

Your first step if you're concerned about your brother's administration of the estate should be formally requesting an accounting. Send a written request, email is fine but certified mail provides proof of delivery, asking for a complete accounting of all estate assets, income, expenses, and distributions made to date.

Be specific in your request. Ask for documentation of the estate's initial inventory, all bank and investment account statements, records of all property sales, receipts for expenses paid from estate funds, and details of any distributions already made to beneficiaries. Texas law entitles you to this information, and a properly functioning executor should be able to provide it.

Give your brother a reasonable time to respond—thirty days is typical. If he doesn't respond or provides incomplete information, send a follow-up request clearly stating that you're entitled to this information under Texas law and that continued refusal may require court intervention. Document all communications in case you need to demonstrate to a court that you attempted to resolve issues without litigation.

Consulting with a Probate Attorney

If informal requests don't resolve your concerns, consult with a Texas probate attorney who can evaluate your situation and advise you about your rights and options. Many probate attorneys offer initial consultations at reduced rates or even free, allowing you to get professional advice without major upfront costs.

An attorney can review the will (or explain intestacy laws if there's no will), assess whether your brother's actions constitute breach of fiduciary duty, and outline your options for legal action if necessary. Sometimes a letter from an attorney to the executor is enough to prompt proper conduct, executors often take concerns more seriously when raised by legal counsel.

Don't assume you can't afford an attorney. In some cases where an executor has clearly breached fiduciary duties, courts can order the executor to pay your attorney fees from the estate funds. Additionally, many probate attorneys work on contingency or modified contingency arrangements in clear cases of executor misconduct.

Filing a Petition with the Probate Court

If your brother continues to act improperly despite requests for information and attempts at resolution, you can file a petition with the probate court asking for relief. Options include petitioning to compel an accounting, petitioning to remove the executor for breach of fiduciary duty, objecting to the executor's actions or proposed distributions, or requesting the court to interpret disputed will provisions.

Texas probate courts have broad authority to address executor misconduct. They can order specific actions, can require the executor to provide security (a bond) to protect beneficiaries, can convert independent administration to dependent administration requiring court approval for major actions, or can remove the executor entirely and appoint a replacement.

Filing court petitions requires following specific procedures and deadlines. This is another reason working with an attorney is valuable, they understand court requirements and can ensure your petitions are properly filed and supported with necessary evidence. Courts are receptive to legitimate complaints from beneficiaries but expect petitions to be well-founded and properly presented.

Understanding Your Legal Remedies

Texas law provides multiple remedies for beneficiaries harmed by executor misconduct. Courts can surcharge executors, meaning order them to personally repay money lost due to their misconduct. If an executor sold property for less than fair value benefiting themselves, for example, they can be required to make up the difference from their own funds.

Courts can void transactions that were improper, for instance, setting aside a sale of estate property to the executor at an unfair price. They can also remove executors and appoint replacements, even if the will named the original executor. The will's nomination of an executor is given weight but isn't absolute if that person proves unfit.

In cases of intentional wrongdoing, Texas law allows for additional remedies including punitive damages and even criminal prosecution for theft or fraud. While these extreme remedies are reserved for serious misconduct, their existence reflects how seriously Texas takes the protection of beneficiaries' rights.

Family Dynamics and Estate Disputes

Addressing Conflict Between Siblings

Estate disputes between siblings often reflect long-standing family tensions that have nothing to do with the estate itself. Your brother's behavior as executor might be influenced by old resentments, feelings of favoritism from childhood, or disagreements about your father's care before death. While these feelings are real, they don't justify improper estate administration.

Try to separate emotional issues from legal ones. You may never resolve underlying family conflicts, but that doesn't mean you have to accept being cheated out of your inheritance. Focus on your legal rights and proper estate administration rather than trying to fix broken family relationships through the probate process.

Consider whether mediation might help. Some probate courts offer or can order mediation where a neutral third party helps siblings work through disputes. Mediation is often faster and less expensive than litigation and can sometimes preserve family relationships better than court battles. However, mediation only works if both parties participate in good faith.

When to Stand Firm vs. Compromise

Some disputes are worth pursuing and others aren't. If your brother is genuinely violating your rights, keeping inheritance you're legally entitled to or breaching clear fiduciary duties, standing firm and pursuing legal remedies makes sense. Your father likely wanted you to receive your inheritance, and protecting that right honors his wishes.

However, sometimes beneficiaries fight over matters that cost more to litigate than they're worth. If the dispute is over which sibling gets a particular item of modest value, compromise might be wiser than spending thousands on attorney fees. Assess disputes realistically, considering both the principle involved and the practical costs of pursuing your position.

Attorneys can help you evaluate what's worth fighting for. They've seen similar situations and can give you realistic assessments of your likelihood of success and the costs involved. Use this guidance to make informed decisions about when to compromise and when to stand firm on your rights.

Dealing with Undue Influence Claims

Sometimes one sibling isolates a parent near the end of life and influences them to change their will to favor that sibling. Undue influence is a valid ground for contesting a will in Texas, but proving it requires showing that someone substituted their will for the testator's will through excessive pressure or manipulation.

Signs of possible undue influence include sudden changes to wills shortly before death that drastically favor one child, the favored child being present when the new will was executed while other children were excluded, the parent being in declining health or mentally compromised when the will changed, and the parent being isolated from other family members by the favored child.

Proving undue influence is challenging and requires substantial evidence. Courts recognize that children may assist aging parents with estate planning and that parents have the right to favor one child over others for their own reasons. The question is whether the parent was making their own free choice or whether someone overcame their free will through manipulation.

Preventing Future Estate Disputes

What Your Father Could Have Done

While this doesn't help your current situation, understanding what could have prevented disputes might help you plan your own estate better in the future. Clear, unambiguous wills that explicitly state who gets what and why leave less room for disputes. Some parents include explanation letters with their wills describing their reasoning, which can prevent hurt feelings and disputes.

Choosing the right executor matters enormously. Parents sometimes name the oldest child or the child who lives closest as executor without considering whether that child can handle the responsibility and treat all siblings fairly. Naming a neutral third party—an attorney, bank, or trusted friend, as executor sometimes prevents sibling conflicts.

Discussing estate plans with children while parents are still healthy and competent can help too. When children understand parents' wishes and reasoning directly from the parents, they're less likely to dispute the estate plan after death. While these conversations can be uncomfortable, they prevent much worse problems later.

Learning for Your Own Estate Planning

Experiencing estate disputes teaches valuable lessons for your own planning. You now understand why clear documentation matters, why choosing the right executor is critical, and how important it is to treat potential heirs fairly or at least to clearly explain any unequal treatment.

Consider naming co-executors to provide checks and balances, or name a professional fiduciary if you anticipate family conflicts. Include specific provisions addressing potential disputes, such as requiring mediation before litigation. Make your wishes clear and document your reasoning.

Update your estate plan regularly as family circumstances change. A plan that made sense years ago might not reflect current relationships or needs. Regular reviews with an estate planning attorney ensure your plan continues to accomplish your goals and minimizes dispute potential.

Conclusion

Your brother cannot legally cut you off from your father's estate in Texas if you have inheritance rights under your father's will or under intestacy law. While executors have broad authority to manage estates, that authority is constrained by their fiduciary duties and by the legal requirement to follow either the will's terms or intestacy statutes. 

If your brother is acting improperly, withholding information, favoring himself or others, delaying distributions unreasonably, or otherwise breaching his duties, Texas law provides remedies through the probate court system. Your rights as a beneficiary or heir are protected by law, and courts take these protections seriously. 

While pursuing your rights might create or worsen family conflicts, you're entitled to receive your lawful inheritance regardless of your relationship with the executor. Start by requesting information formally, consult with a probate attorney to understand your specific situation, and don't hesitate to petition the court for relief if informal efforts don't resolve the problem. Your father's estate should be distributed according to law and according to his wishes, not according to one sibling's preferences or grudges.

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FAQs

Q: Can my brother refuse to tell me what's in my dad's estate? 

No, beneficiaries have the legal right to information about estate assets and administration, if he refuses to provide an accounting, you can petition the court to compel one.

Q: What if the will names my brother as executor and leaves everything to him?

If the will is valid and truly leaves everything to your brother, he would inherit everything legally, however, you have the right to contest the will if you believe it was created under undue influence or your father lacked capacity.

Q: How long do I have to challenge my brother's actions as executor? 

Will contests must be filed within two years of probate, but complaints about executor misconduct can generally be filed anytime during estate administration and sometimes even after closing if fraud is discovered.

Q: Can an executor in Texas be forced to give me a copy of the will? 

Yes, you're entitled to receive a copy of the will, it's also a public document once admitted to probate, so you can get it from the court if the executor won't provide it.

Q: What happens if my brother is stealing from the estate? 

Theft from an estate is both a civil wrong (breach of fiduciary duty) and potentially a crime, you can petition to remove him as executor, seek to have him repay stolen funds, and potentially pursue criminal charges.

Q: Do I have to accept what my brother offers me even if I think it's unfair? 

No, you don't have to accept distributions you believe are incorrect, you can challenge improper distributions in court and insist on receiving your full legal entitlement.

Q: How much does it cost to hire an attorney to fight an executor in Texas? 

Costs vary widely depending on case complexity, but many probate attorneys offer initial consultations affordably, and in cases of clear executor misconduct, courts sometimes order the executor to pay your attorney fees from estate funds.

**Disclaimer: This article provides general information about inheritance rights and executor duties under Texas law and should not be considered legal advice. Every estate situation is unique, and specific outcomes depend on particular facts and circumstances. For guidance about your specific situation, please consult with a qualified Texas probate attorney who can review your case details and advise you about your rights and options.

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