How to Manage Automatic Payments After a Loved One’s Death

Learn how to stop or update automatic payments after a loved one’s death, including which accounts to check, documents you may need, and how to prevent unwanted charges.

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Jocelyn Campos
November 7, 2025
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Key Takeaways

  • Automatic payments can continue indefinitely unless they’re stopped, leading to unnecessary charges.
  • Start by securing access to the deceased’s financial accounts and identifying all recurring payments.
  • You may need a death certificate and proof of authority to cancel or change certain payments.

Acting quickly helps protect the estate and prevents overdrafts or missed obligations.

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Managing automatic payments is an important but often overlooked task after someone dies. Many people have multiple recurring charges, subscriptions, utilities, insurance premiums, memberships, loan payments, and these will continue until you cancel or update them. Here’s how to handle these payments efficiently and responsibly.

1. Secure Access to the Deceased’s Financial Accounts

Start by gathering access to:

  • Bank accounts
  • Credit cards
  • PayPal, Venmo, or other payment apps
  • Online banking dashboards

This allows you to see which payments are still running.

If you don’t have access, you’ll typically need Letters Testamentary, Letters of Administration, or equivalent documents to gain control as the executor.

2. Identify All Automatic Payments

Review recent statements, ideally the last 3–6 months, to spot recurring charges. These could include:

  • Streaming services
  • Phone plans
  • Insurance premiums
  • Utilities
  • Cloud storage
  • Gym memberships
  • Loan or credit card autopay

Make a list so you can track which ones need canceling, transferring, or continuing temporarily (for example, home utilities).

3. Determine Which Payments Should Continue

Some services may need to remain active during estate administration, such as:

  • Electric, gas, or water at the home
  • Home security systems
  • Property insurance
  • Mortgage, HOA fees, or storage unit fees

Avoid shutting these off prematurely if they’re needed to protect property.

4. Cancel Payments You No Longer Need

For subscriptions, memberships, and services that can be stopped:

  • Log into the account if you have access
  • Contact the company directly if you do not
  • Be prepared to provide a death certificate and your ID

Many subscription-based services allow quick online cancellation without requiring documentation.

5. Update Payments for Essential Accounts

If certain payments need to continue, update the billing method to:

  • An estate account
  • An account managed by the executor

This prevents overdraft fees on the deceased’s personal accounts and keeps estate funds separate.

6. Monitor Accounts for Several Months

Even after canceling most payments, monitor statements for:

  • Missed cancellations
  • Duplicate charges
  • Annual subscriptions you may have overlooked

Some autopayments renew annually, so they may not appear in monthly statements.

Conclusion

Handling automatic payments after a loved one’s death is essential for protecting the estate’s finances and avoiding unnecessary charges. Start by identifying recurring payments, canceling those no longer needed, and updating billing for accounts that must remain active. With the right documents and a careful review of financial statements, this task becomes much more manageable.

Elayne’s Automated Estate Settlements platform can help track and organize these steps, saving time and reducing stress during an already difficult period.

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FAQs

Q: Do I need to be the executor to cancel autopayments?
For most subscriptions, no. But banks, credit cards, and insurance companies typically require executor authority.

Q: Will companies refund charges made after the date of death?
Some will if you provide a death certificate and proof that the account should have been closed. Policies vary.

Q: What if I can’t access the deceased’s online accounts?
Contact the provider directly and be prepared to show documentation. Executors may need court-issued authority to access financial accounts.

Q: How long should I monitor the accounts?
Most experts recommend monitoring for 3–6 months to ensure all recurring charges are caught.

*Disclaimer: This article is for informational purposes only and does not provide legal, medical, financial, or tax advice. Please consult with a licensed professional to address your specific situation.

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