Apply for veteran’s benefits yourself

If your loved one served in the military, you may be eligible for financial, burial, health, or education benefits. This guide explains which documents you’ll need, how to apply, and what to expect once your claim is submitted.

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Jocelyn Campos
October 21, 2025
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Key Takeaways

  • You’ll need a few key documents, including the veteran’s DD214 discharge papers and a certified death certificate.

  • Benefits include income support, burial reimbursements, and survivor health or education benefits.

  • You can apply online, by mail, or in person through the VA.

  • Keep copies of everything you submit and track your claim through VA.gov.

If your loved one served in the military, the U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs (VA) offers a range of survivor and burial benefits. These can include monthly payments, funeral reimbursements, and even health care or education assistance.

You can apply for these benefits yourself; it just takes the right paperwork and a little patience. Here’s how to get started.

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Step 1: Gather Required Documents

Before applying, collect the documents the VA will need to verify eligibility:

Having these ready will make your application smoother and prevent delays.

Step 2: Decide Which Benefits to Apply For

There are several categories of VA survivor benefits. You can apply for one or more, depending on your situation:

  • Monthly income benefits:
    • Survivors Pension for low-income surviving spouses or children
    • Dependency and Indemnity Compensation (DIC) if the veteran’s death was related to service

  • Burial and memorial benefits:
    • Funeral cost reimbursement
    • Headstone or marker
    • Burial in a VA national cemetery

  • Other benefits:
    • CHAMPVA health care for spouses and dependents
    • Education assistance (DEA) for surviving family members

If you’re unsure which apply, the VA’s website includes an eligibility questionnaire that helps you identify available programs.

Step 3: Submit Your Claim

You can file a claim in whichever way feels easiest:

  • Online: VA.gov – VA Benefits For Family and Caregivers

  • By mail:
    Send your completed forms and documents to:
    VA Claims Intake Center
    PO Box 5365
    Janesville, WI 53547-5365

  • In person:
    Visit your nearest VA regional office and bring copies of all documents.

Make sure to include your contact information and keep copies of everything you send.

Step 4: Wait for VA Review

The VA reviews each claim individually. They may request additional information before making a decision.

You’ll receive a decision letter by mail once the review is complete, and you can track your claim status online at VA.gov.

Processing times vary; most claims take a few weeks to several months, depending on complexity and documentation.

Final Thoughts

Applying for veteran’s benefits yourself can feel daunting, but it’s absolutely doable, especially with the right documents in hand. Each form you submit helps preserve the recognition and support your loved one earned through their service.

Elayne can make the process even easier by helping you organize paperwork, pre-fill VA forms, and track progress until your benefits are approved.

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FAQs

1. Can I apply for more than one VA benefit?
Yes. You can apply for multiple programs such as DIC, Survivors Pension, and burial benefits at the same time.

2. How long does it take to get a response?
It varies. Some burial benefits are processed in a few weeks, while income-based or service-connected claims may take longer.

3. Can I apply online?
Yes. The fastest way is through VA.gov 

4. What if I don’t have the DD214 form?
You can request a replacement from the National Archives using eVetRecs.

5. What if I prefer not to handle this myself?
You can have Elayne or a VA-accredited representative submit the claim for you.

*Disclaimer: This article is for informational purposes only and does not provide legal, medical, financial, or tax advice. Please consult with a licensed professional to address your specific situation.

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